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    For Facilitators & Coaches

    Hold space for men. Get paid fairly. Be part of something bigger.

    MENd Together is building a UK-wide network of trauma-aware facilitators, coaches, and circle leaders. If you have the skills, the lived experience and the steadiness, we want to hear from you.

    Who we're looking for

    We're not a generic coaching directory. MENDTOGETHER CIC works with men carrying childhood trauma, addiction recovery, fatherhood pressure, grief, and suicidal ideation. Our facilitators are trauma-aware, regulated, and grounded.

    Trauma-aware practitioners

    Therapists, counsellors, somatic practitioners or trained peer-support workers with verifiable training.

    Men's circle facilitators

    Experience holding circles, sweat lodges, rites-of-passage work, or peer-support groups for men.

    Recovery & addiction coaches

    Certified coaches working with men in recovery from alcohol, drugs, behavioural addictions or post-rehab.

    Lived-experience leaders

    Men with lived experience of trauma, recovery or fatherhood who have done their own work and now hold space for others.

    The pathway

    1

    Expression of interest

    Submit a short application below. We respond within 7 working days.

    2

    Discovery conversation

    A 45-minute call with our team to understand your background, motivation, and the kind of work you want to lead.

    3

    Safeguarding & DBS

    Enhanced DBS check, two professional references, and review of qualifications, insurance, and supervision arrangements.

    4

    Onboarding & induction

    A 6-hour online induction covering our trauma-aware framework, safeguarding protocols, escalation pathways and our code of conduct.

    5

    Shadow & co-facilitate

    Shadow an experienced MENd facilitator for at least two sessions before co-leading. We pay you for your time from day one.

    6

    Active practice

    Lead sessions (your share negotiated transparently), with ongoing supervision and quarterly peer reflection.

    What we expect

    • Adherence to our trauma-aware practice framework and safeguarding policies.
    • Active professional indemnity insurance (minimum £1m) and named supervisor.
    • Enhanced DBS certificate (we can support the process if needed).
    • Commitment to your own continued therapy, supervision or peer-reflection practice.
    • Willingness to escalate safeguarding concerns immediately and follow our Not-a-Crisis-Service framing.
    • Honest, non-grandiose communication. We do not work with practitioners who promise to 'cure' or 'fix' men.

    What you get

    Fair, transparent pay

    Session fees split openly. No volunteer-by-default exploitation. Travel and prep time included.

    Ongoing development

    Free access to our practitioner library, quarterly CPD sessions and peer-supervision groups.

    A movement, not a gig

    You're part of a national CIC rebuilding how men get help, with a brand, infrastructure and audience behind you.

    Ready to apply?

    Send a short note about your background, qualifications and why you want to work with men. Include a CV, supervision details, and the kind of session you'd most like to lead.

    Coming up next

    Find your next way in

    Your next opportunity to connect, talk, learn, and be part of the MENd Together community.

    Next up

    Starts

    Online Peer Support Group

    A confidential online peer support group for male survivors of CSA and childhood trauma.

    • Tuesday 3 November
    • 7:00pm
    • Online
    • Open to all men
    • £10 per person, per week

    First time? You're welcome, no experience needed, and you're free to just listen.

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    Programmes men can walk with us
    2nd Monday
    Men's circle, every month in Canterbury

    We only count what we can verify. No invented testimonials, no growth-chart vanity numbers. When men share their words with consent, they show up here.

    Help keep this work free for men who need it

    MENd Together is a Community Interest Company. Every donation helps fund free groups, peer support and outreach across Kent.

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