For fathers across Kent
Support For Fathers
You do not have to carry it all on your own.
Whether you're struggling with separation, loneliness, stress, anxiety, loss of contact with your children, relationship breakdown, identity, purpose, or simply carrying more than anyone realises | MENd Together provides safe, compassionate support for fathers, including our flagship Monthly Fathers Support Group, held in person in Canterbury each month.
You are not alone
Many fathers are carrying more than anyone realises
Across Kent, thousands of men are quietly navigating fatherhood while struggling with their mental health. Most do it in silence because they feel they need to stay strong for everyone else.
Many fathers experience
- Separation from children
- Relationship breakdown
- Family court stress
- Loneliness
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Financial pressure
- Loss of identity
- Anger
- Shame
- Feeling disconnected
Suicide remains the biggest killer of men under 50 in the UK, and fathers experiencing separation are among the most at risk. Reaching out is not weakness. It is one of the strongest things a father can do, for himself, and for his children.
Why a fathers group?
Because no father should carry it alone
Many fathers feel isolated.
Many men struggle to speak openly about what they are carrying.
Many fathers lose support networks following relationship breakdowns.
Many men feel they must stay strong whilst struggling internally.
The Fathers Support Group provides
The group is not therapy. It is a facilitated peer-support space where fathers can talk openly, listen, learn and connect.
Who is it for?
Every kind of father is welcome
Separated Fathers
If separation has changed your world, you are not alone in this. A grounded space to be heard.
Co-Parenting Fathers
Navigating shared parenting takes patience and support. Connect with dads doing the same.
Single Fathers
Carrying it all on your own is heavy. This is a space to put some of that weight down.
Married Fathers
Even in steady relationships, fatherhood can feel isolating. You're welcome here too.
Stepfathers
Step-parenting comes with its own quiet challenges. Bring them into a room that gets it.
Expectant Fathers
Becoming a dad changes everything. Find support and connection before, during and after.
Fathers Experiencing Mental Health Challenges
Anxiety, depression, burnout, you don't have to face them alone. We hold space for it.
Fathers Looking For Community
If you simply want to be around other good men, this is your room.
Flagship offering
Monthly Fathers Support Group
A safe, supportive space for fathers to connect with other dads who understand the challenges of modern fatherhood.
Whether you are navigating separation, co-parenting, family court proceedings, mental health struggles, loneliness, relationship challenges, parenting stress, or simply looking for connection with other fathers, you are welcome.
Monthly group format
- In person, last Thursday of the month · 19:00 to 21:00 · The Yurt, Kingston, Canterbury
- Safe, confidential environment
- Facilitated by MENd Together
- Tea, coffee and refreshments
- Discussion topics and open sharing
- Optional participation, no pressure to speak
- Respect and confidentiality expected
"Sometimes the most powerful thing a father can hear is that he is not the only one."
Register your interest
Join the Fathers Group
This group meets in person in Canterbury each month. Leave your details and we'll send you the date, directions and what to expect for the next gathering.
How MENd Together can help
Safe, grounded ways to step in
Common reasons fathers reach out
Whatever you're carrying, there's a place for it here
Jaymes' story
MENd Together was built by a father who has walked this road
Jaymes is a father of two boys and the founder of MENd Together. The work he does today grew out of lived experience, navigating family court, separation, mental health struggles, addiction recovery and the long, quiet work of healing from childhood trauma.
He knows what it is to feel unseen as a father. To love your children deeply and still be brought to your knees by the systems, losses and silences that come with modern fatherhood.
MENd Together was created so that no father in Kent has to face those seasons alone. Everything we do is grounded in lived experience, trauma-informed practice, and the simple belief that men heal in community.
For professionals
A trusted referral partner for fathers' wellbeing
We welcome referrals from social prescribers, family support teams, GP practices, community organisations, charities and family mediators across Kent.
We welcome referrals of fathers who may benefit from connection, peer support, improved wellbeing and reduced isolation, including a place at our Monthly Fathers Support Group.
When you need support now
If you are in crisis, please reach out
MENd Together is not an emergency service. If you or someone you love is in crisis or at risk of harm, please contact one of the services below, they are there for moments like this.
- Samaritans
Call 116 123, free, 24/7
- Shout
Text SHOUT to 85258, free, 24/7
- NHS Mental Health
Call 111 and select the mental health option
- Emergency Services
Call 999 if life is in danger
Important, scope of our support
What MENd Together can and cannot offer
MENd Together provides emotional support, peer support, community connection, men's groups, fathers groups and wellbeing support. Everything we do is grounded in lived experience and trauma-informed practice.
MENd Together does not provide legal advice.
MENd Together is unable to provide support relating to ongoing investigations, court proceedings or allegations involving domestic abuse, child abuse, sexual offences or safeguarding concerns.
Individuals involved in such matters should seek appropriate legal advice and specialist services.
MENd Together reserves the right to decline support where safeguarding concerns exist. This boundary exists to keep everyone, including children, safe, and we hold it with care, not judgement.
Separate information · Not a MENd Together service
McKenzie Friend information
Separate to MENd Together CIC community services, McKenzie Friend support may be available through an independent arrangement for suitable family court matters.
- · Not legal advice
- · Not legal representation
- · Support subject to suitability
- · Support subject to availability
- · Separate enquiry process
- · Fees apply
This is shared for information only and is independent of MENd Together CIC's community services.
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You do not have to carry it all on your own
No waiting list. No form to complete first. No pressure to share before you're ready.
Reach out when you're ready, one message is all it takes to begin.
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FAQ
Common questions from fathers
What fathers usually ask before reaching out.
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About MENd Together
Our story, values and team.
Contact MENd Together
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Help keep this work free for men who need it
MENd Together is a Community Interest Company. Every donation helps fund free groups, peer support and outreach across Kent.