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Brotherhood · Connection · Belonging
Brotherhood, laughter, honest conversation, shared experiences and the kind of belonging most men quietly miss. Come for connection — and if life is heavy, you'll be held here too.
Next session
Monday 14 Sept 2026 · 18:30–20:30
Save your place
Second Monday each month · Canterbury · free.
No account needed · under 60 seconds
You don't have to speak.
You won't be judged.
Some men just sit and listen.
You can take this at your own pace.
Long before therapy rooms and waiting lists, men gathered. Around fires, in workshops, in barns and on hillsides. They sat together and they spoke honestly. Not always about feelings. Sometimes about work. Sometimes about loss. Sometimes about nothing at all. But the gathering itself did the work.
That's what this is. A modern men's circle in Canterbury, held in the simplest, oldest way. Men sitting in a circle. Men speaking honestly. Men standing alongside each other for a couple of hours a month, so that the rest of the month feels less heavy.
You don't need to be in crisis to come. You don't need to be a man who already talks about his feelings. You don't need to know what you'd say. Most men arrive not knowing. That's part of why it works.
The circle meets at The Yurt at The Quiet View, in Kingston, just outside Canterbury. A beautiful, quiet, sacred setting that supports the kind of honesty and stillness this work asks for. A wood burner in winter. The sound of birds in summer. And a room full of men who, like you, came because something in them was looking for it.
Why men come
You can have a good job, a partner, kids, mates at the pub, and still feel completely alone with what's actually going on inside you. Most men do. We're taught to manage it. To get on. To not make a fuss. And then one day it gets too heavy to keep carrying quietly.
Men come to the circle because they're tired of holding it all in. Because something has shifted, a relationship, a loss, a wave of anxiety, a quiet sense that this isn't sustainable. Or because nothing dramatic has happened, and that's somehow the harder thing.
They come because they've sensed that they need other men. Not advice. Not fixing. Just other men who get it.
What to Expect
Groups are kept intimate, typically 6 to 12 men, so every voice matters and every man is seen.
Each circle follows a gentle rhythm: check-ins, sharing rounds, and closing reflection. There's always room to breathe.
Most men come to their first circle quiet and unsure. You can sit, listen, and pass when the talking-piece reaches you. Showing up is the work.
Schedule
Next circle: Monday 14th September 2026
18:30 to 20:30 · 2nd Monday of every month
The Yurt, The Quiet View
146 The St, Kingston, Canterbury CT4 6FG
£10 suggested donation
Open to all men. No referral needed. No man turned away for lack of funds — support our work.




Set in an Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty, just outside Canterbury, with wide views over the Kent countryside. The garden and yurt are open throughout the year for individuals and groups to come and pray, talk, reflect, study, or simply rest. Rooted in Christianity, the space welcomes people from all faiths and none.
Around the garden you'll find hidden 'rooms' created from the natural environment. Places to sit peacefully, reflect, or simply be. The Quiet View was made for the kind of slowing down this work needs.
The yurt has blue painted doors to signify that all are welcome. Inside, the space is warm and held. A wood burner in the centre, soft lighting, comfortable seating arranged in a circle. There is a small kitchen and a toilet on site.
As you enter, you meet a steady, sacred quality that invites you to put down what you're carrying. Cosy in winter and airy in summer. No matter how hard the wind blows outside, everyone feels safe in the Yurt.
Find us
146 The Street, Kingston, Canterbury CT4 6FG. Set just outside Canterbury in the Kent Downs, with parking on site.
Officially registered
Our men's circle is run by a non-profit CIC, accountable to the community it serves. Every space is free, trauma-informed and held by trained facilitators. Read about our CIC status.
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FAQ
Everything men usually want to know before their first circle in Canterbury.
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Volunteer-led. Built with men who've walked this path. We'd rather be clear than oversell — so here's what to expect, and what to do if it isn't right for you.
A monthly Canterbury gathering where men sit, speak, or pass — at their own pace, with no agenda beyond being heard. £10 suggested donation; no man turned away.
It isn't group therapy and it isn't a debate club. We don't fix each other or give unsolicited advice.
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An honest look at masculinity, strength, and vulnerability.
Coming to a circle
You arrive. Tea is on. There's a quiet welcome.
We sit in a circle. Phones away.
Each man speaks in turn, or passes. Both are fine.
You can leave at any time. You take your pace.
Professional & partner referrals
GPs, clinicians, social workers, charities and partner agencies can refer a man for peer support, groups or programmes.
We only count what we can verify. No invented testimonials, no growth-chart vanity numbers. When men share their words with consent, they show up here.
MENd Together is a Community Interest Company. Every donation helps fund free groups, peer support and outreach across Kent.